There has been something missing in my life for many years. A laugh, a smile, a tear, a hug, a phone call, email, or just sense of feeling complete in a way. I was blessed to fill that void this past weekend that I have had on my heart for so many years. I hadn't seen or talked to my dad in 4 years. I came to realize that the hurt and disappointment that I felt was being extremely overridden by how much I missed him. We are just alike.. very similar mannerisms, same taste in food & music.. and always have a great time laughing together. I didn't want to wonder how he was anymore... I wanted to KNOW. He had JUST been in my thoughts and had wanted to surprise him for his big 60th birthday, but I wasn't sure if I could pull it off... so when I got the call from his sister with an invitation to his major birthday party he was throwing, it seemed that God was making a way.
"There is no one else I would rather see today than you...you made this party for me." I definitely had to fight tears when he said that to me.
He throws a FANTASTIC party. It was his 60th, so he decided to go all out. The largest BBQ grill I have ever seen, more liquor than anyone could drink, jello shots, birthday cake, poker games, swimming, hot tub, golfing on his personal course, an AMAZING band, dancing, and many friends and close family.
A beautiful sunset on his course.
On Monday, we had a ceremony to lay the headstone for my grandmother that passed in September. I was so happy to be a part of it. The area is close to the water and has these huge, beautiful trees. 
Do we look alike ?? :)
Dad, Happy Birthday! I am still on an emotional high from being there all weekend. I had so much fun with everyone and can't even explain how happy I am that I got to be a part of it. I love you.
6 comments:
AWWWW Jamie, what a great post! I love all the images and wow your dad and you really look alike!! Looks like you had a great time! love the first image of your day, it is priceless :)
Jamie- you left a comment on my blog today. I stopped by to check you out, lol. I am so touched by this story. I lost my Dad 5 years ago to Cancer. Treasure the time you have, once it's gone you don't want to have regrets! I think of him everyday, miss him so! Must also mention, your photography is amazing! I am gonna sit back for awhile and admire your older posts!
Not sure how I ended up on your blog..but so glad I did. I've had a rough day..and this story..has brightend my spirit and brought a tear to my eye. Thank you for sharing..and btw, the party sounds like it ROCKED!
what a touching post!! i'm currently estranged from my mom. long story, but i'm really glad that you and your dad reconnected!
love that b&w with the rays coming through the clouds shot! just awesome!
that is so RAD!!! i am truly happy for you! now, if i could only follow in your footsteps. ;)
I really like the colloge, great job.
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